Deadbeat Dad Shaming

[Jason76]

One place on Facebook posts memes regularly mocking and ridiculing them. Nonetheless, we don't know the whole story. I'm sure most men have a heart to help their kids but are too weak, like a man in a wheelchair, to really do anything about it. However, though, God does say he will heal those who come to him.

 

[Lamb]

I think that yes, there are both sides to every story, but also there is proof from some women that their ex's have contributed nothing to their children besides taking them out to McDonald's on the day that they have them.

My sister raised 3 kids without help from her ex. He said he paid for their food when they were with him so that's all he needed to do. I'd call that a deadbeat dad in a way. Not as bad as some of the others, but because of his own selfishness, he forced my sister to pay for everything else. Admittedly though, he did end up paying for some of their dental work later on when they were teens but that's because the kids were old enough to start talking out about their parents and who did what.

If dads can't afford to pay for things, there are other ways that they can help the child by offering to babysit while the mom works.